Written by Anna M.
Ever since I was a little girl, I have been an avid reader. Both my parents are avid readers, and my mom basically raised me in the library. Nevertheless, as I have grown through the human experience, my reading habits have changed almost as much as I have.
1. Allowing myself to have DNFs. The reality is there are billions of books in the world, and millions more are being written. No one is going to be able to read every book, and our time is incredibly valuable. Do not waste your time on a book that simply is not good (obviously a subjective but still very valid opinion). Not all books are created equal, and not every book is going to be your cup of tea. I’ve learned that that is completely okay. Don’t be in a toxic relationship with the book you’re reading!
2. Number two goes hand in hand with number one: Allowing myself to not read. Reading slumps are real and that does not make you a book hater. Some days your brain needs the TV adaptation.
3. Opening my mind to let myself be changed by the stories of life. You don’t have to agree with the author or the character. Regardless of who you are or what you believe, reading will make you a better person if you think critically and embrace openness.
4. Reading nonfiction. It can be fun too! I used to be a stickler for fiction. After all, how is Atomic Habits going to compete with the adventures of Harry Potter, Lane McEvoy, or Christy Miller? I would make fun of my dad for reading so much nonfiction. However, the older I get, the more I see the value in reading nonfiction. It’s not for everyone, but there’s so much real-world information waiting at our fingertips.
5. Audiobooks are books too! I will always prefer to hold in my hands a hard copy of a novel, to grasp the pages between my fingers and feel the pattern of the words. Nevertheless, sometimes there is not enough time in the day, and your reading should not have to suffer. Audiobooks are great on a walk, on a run, or on a drive. You can listen to them while cooking or cleaning or both. They are such an accessible way to read, and the opportunity they give readers are endless.
6. Re-reading is still reading! While I love finding new stories and characters, often the best way to get out of a slump is to re-read a favorite. There are novels I regularly go back to because they genuinely make my day better. The re-reads should be treasured and celebrated.
7. Fall in love with the classics. They have stood the test of time for a reason. Whether you are forced to read them in school or are not allowed to read them in school, read these books. Don’t Sparknotes them!
8. Spoilers still are NOT allowed. Regardless of how I change as a reader and how my habits change, it will never be okay to spoil a good book. Don’t fix what isn’t broken. This rule is never going to change.
9. Reading with others and finding fellow booklovers. For one’s reading journey, this is so important for growth: Having people in your life that will encourage you in your reading and geek out about your favorite novels with you. Finding a book club or community (Shoutout to my amazing Teen Book Guild) is vital to one’s success as a reader. Don’t surround yourself with people who hate books and reading! In my experience, they almost always discourage one’s pursuit of reading. It’s a cautioning tale I could tell time and time again, but the moral of the story is simple. Find a solid community that supports your love for stories and motivates you to pursue your goals.
10. Habit two, Part two: It’s okay to not read. I love stories and the ways novels tell them. I will always love to read. Still, it is important to recognize life’s various seasons. Some days you will binge read book after book; other days you might not even make it through one whole chapter. Like any other healthy relationship, my relationship with reading is not the same as it was when I was just beginning to read at four or when I lived for novels in my early teens not should it be. It’s okay to put a book down and finish it later – and later looks different for all types of people. Allowing oneself grace to grow is the more significant action one can take. I am still a lifelong reader even on the days I don’t read, and I am so thankful that no matter where I am in life, there is always a good book by my side to make my life even better.
In conclusion, there are probably even more ways my reading habits have changed and will continue to change. Nevertheless, the most important thing will always remain constant: my love of reading and my gratefulness that I am surrounded by people who celebrate storytelling.